Dear
Chet: Thank
you so much for including me in your emails. I absolutely love the content, and
I always look forward to opening them when I have time to really pay attention. In
fact, the email to which I am replying makes a very good point about individual
ability to slow down and pay attention. The reader/writer comments on what she
does to "slow down" so that she might help a reader who has trouble
with that. While
I have difficulty slowing down in my daily life, I have come to understand that
it is not a difficult thing to do, it is simply a matter of my level of commitment
to the process. Your
emails themselves are often what I use to begin my effort to slow down. And
sometimes, my slowing down only lasts for the time I read the email and engage
in whatever activity you suggest, which might be something simple like breathing
in deeply three times and feeling a certain way at the top of the breath or as
I exhale. When
I recognize that I need to slow down and "relax" I simply say to myself,
"Let's take just a minute or two to settle and focus." Then,
using some simple technique from one of your emails (I save them all in a special
file), I commit to the act of slowing down, which, in itself, is actually part
of my relaxation. I
find that "beginning" the process is what actually puts me into the
"slow down" mode and begins to settle me and help with focus, without
me even realizing that I am slowing down. So, it is actually starting the process
itself that starts to slow me down. Even
when I might only have a minute or two, no matter where I am, I can just breathe
correctly and redirect my energy effortlessly to the task at hand, which is usually
avoiding just for a moment or two all other tasks at hand. In
this way, I do slow down, I do relax, and I do end up doing a better, more focused
job on whatever else I was working on. I can just feel the stress melt away, and
then the "work" is something I look forward to doing, and it too can
be effortless. Also,
I find that the more often I do this, the more it becomes a part of my routine,
the easier it becomes, and the more I seem to live in a relaxed or less-stressed
state throughout the entire day. At that point, slowing down seems to be less
a part of the equation because I am already in a pleasant state. Thanks
for everything, Chet! Best
and warmest regards, Mike P.S.
If you find anything I have written to be useful at all, please feel free to share
it with whomever you wish. Thanks. |